52. I bought a door mat and called it resistance.
Revolutionary behavior: going to the store.
Hi friends.
Recently, we needed a new door mat. I love going out, but somehow also hate leaving my house. I forced myself to walk to the local hardware store, not Home Depot, not Lowes. I asked if they had door mats, thinking that they wouldn’t.
“That aisle back there,” the shopkeeper pointed from behind the counter.
Sure I didn’t get to pick the exact color or design, but I didn’t use Amazon. And I got to walk home with it right away. It was like rediscovering how gratifying it can be to need something, go buy it, and have it immediately - not wait 3 days for it to show up on your doorstep.
Scott Galloway started a campaign to get people to cancel Amazon Prime. Economic pressure, he argued, is the only kind that actually registers. On March 11th, I did it. Prime and One Medical, gone.
I assumed it would be painful. I have a lot going on and Amazon had become my shortcut for feeling on top of it. Turns out two months later, things are fine. I haven’t bought every little thing I thought my apartment needed, which mostly confirms I didn’t need it.
I’ve been stopping into physical stores instead. They almost always have what I need. And I found myself thinking about all of this while being inundated with Met Gala content.
This year’s gala, with Bezos and Lauren Sánchez as honorary chairs and lead sponsors to the tune of at least $10 million, triggered boycott calls, protest posters near the museum, and a roster of notable no-shows including Zendaya and, allegedly, Meryl Streep. The activist group Everyone Hates Elon smuggled hundreds of bottles of fake urine into the Met ahead of the red carpet, a nod to longstanding reports about Amazon warehouse conditions. The Met’s own union pointed out that 19% of its members earn less annually than the cost of a single ticket to last year’s gala.
While all of that was happening on the Upper East Side, the rest of the city was busy hosting its own fashion week. In the Meatpacking District, Ball Without Billionaires drew hundreds of people in handmade looks bearing slogans like “The Devil Wears Amazon” in front of a makeshift bodega that read “Labor Is Power.” Fashion stylist Gabriella Karefa-Johnson hosted; Lisa Ann Walter of Abbott Elementary emceed and delivered her verdict on Jeff Bezos: “Temu Lex Luthor,” “Q-tip with a yacht,” and simply, “very bald.” Workers harmed by Amazon walked the red carpet in custom couture, among them warehouse employees injured on the job, organizers fighting the company’s AI data centers, and laid-off Washington Post staff.
Across the river in Brooklyn, the annual People’s Ball filled the Central Library at Grand Army Plaza with amateur fashionistas, a free runway, and no prize except the crowd’s approval.
On that very same Sunday I was out with a friend who is an actress and when she’s not on stage she helps rich Brooklyn women organize their homes and take care of their children. One such employer has filled a beautiful Brownstone with unopened Amazon boxes. She orders say, sponges, forgets that she ordered them because she doesn’t open the box, and then orders them again.
Perhaps the ease with which we can order things is enabling us to consume more than we actually require.
P.S.
I gotta “hand” it to Mandy Lee @oldloserinbrooklyn who predicted we’d see a lot of hands in fashion prior to the Met Gala.
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